Many times, maybe million times i misjudge someone by his/her cover :D
but the bright side is I'm mostly wrong, and finally I befriend with most of them :-)
Feeling, yes i normally count on my so called 'strong feeling' about something or someone.
and my strong feeling whispers bad things dominantly.
Moreover if we hate someone, everything will always seem to be wrong on them.
*it's not a su'udzon or negative thinking, but more likely a very high awareness though (ngeles.com)
But in the end I have to learn that it takes time to learn something/someone beyond assumption.
---Hatred will kill us slowly---
I just heard a story from my friend that..
there was one sahabat Rasul who had a very minimum good deeds, but he never hated anyone all his life. And eventually he's granted a luxury in heaven.
Hmmm.. I will strive to reach the same luxury (chayooo)
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